It has taken us a while to understand Adeline. I think it's because she couldn't be more different than Eloise. They look a lot a like, but are opposites in personality. Adeline has to do everything "herself." And if she doesn't have anything to do she gets extremely cranky (and destructive). She loves to have a job or project to work on. We used to think that this was just pure naughtiness, but she is just as delighted to empty the dryer into a basket as she is to empty everyone's drawers onto the floor. She just needs to be busy.

Adeline is so independent, or wants to be, when it comes to clothes. She is always dressing and undressing herself and no matter how frustrated she gets, she rarely is willing to ask for or receive help. Although it is challenging when she doesn't have the skills yet, I know that in 10 years we will have an independent homework doer, worker, and thinker. She won't be bullied into doing anything and will be on top of all of her work. So we will endure the battles of will right now, because I know it will be worth it.


Did I mention that when she gets bored she sometimes makes trouble? This particular day she got into my bathroom drawer, opened my make up case, found the dark red lipstick and painted with it. At first I thought it was just on the couch, so when I walked in I took her straight to her room for a time out. Teagan walked in while I was discovering it and noticed that I was loosing my mind a little bit/a lot. He suggested using the stain remover that I use on clothes. What a smart boy! The lipstick came right out, no problem. I calmed down a lot once I realized there was no permanent damage. When I went to go get her I found tiny red handprints all over her door. She had painted her hands first and in my fury I hadn't noticed. They were actually kind of cute, maybe I should have taken a picture.


Addy was having a terrible time sleeping and since she was way to big for her crib we decided to put her in a big girl bed. She has been the easiest, BY FAR, to teach to sleep in a bed. She is in heaven and so comfortable now. She has been sleeping so so much better which is making everyone happier. She just needed to be in charge, I guess. We shut her in there and we will hear little knocks on the door and then find her asleep in her bed later on.
Another sign of her independence is how she is always undressing herself, including the diaper, when she needs to go to the bathroom. I figured she was ready to be potty trained. That did not pan out. So we put her back in diapers and I just watch her more closely now.
Adeline, we love you, we love your fiery personality and know you will go far in this world!